CHAIRS PULLED UP TO THE TABLE
"A Mother's Descriptive Analysis..."
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INTRODUCTION Our family tends to grow outward and there is always an extra chair pulled up to the dinner table. I know I've added more than a cup of water to the gravy in order to stretch the meals and so far I've not run out of extra pillows and blankets to create another sleeping pad. We've had baby skunks and o'possums, field mice and bugs, and done mouth-to-mouth life saving techniques on a baby rabbit that the dog thought we might enjoy for supper. We have a permanent burial ground for pets; some of which weren't even ours. We agree to disagree on many topics and I really don't think our home is based on democracy. Every one has an opinion about something, but no one really listens to them anyway. I feel it safe to say that we consider ourselves quite normal--no matter what others think. One of the kids wants Barney shot and the other one loves Barney. One kid thinks dad loves them more and all of them use what ever technique necessary to get attention--so, that must not be too important anyway. Well, whatever happens on a day to day basis, we're still here for each other. And, I kinda like that feeling. Behind every "good woman" is a "good family." Without the individuals below, I would have a very empty life. Ken and I spent 8 years as foster parents and many of our foster children have made our family their "forever family." Here are a couple of our boys who call us mom and dad -- forever -- after they aged out of the foster care system. Kyle Onderdonk -
Cody Onderdonk -
Picture taken 8-8-92 at our wedding in Bergheim, Texas
Part of our children still live in Illinois....the other part in Texas. Although miles separate us physically -- distance doesn't break the bond of our love!
Stacy is quite a handful and will talk your ears off. She has a beautiful smile and everyone loves her personality. Stacy graduated from Bastrop High School in 2004 because she went to Del Valle High all summer to take 5 classes required to graduate early! She is now working at Bastrop State Park
Stephen is now 5 years old....and here is a picture of him at Nicole's 4th birthday party.
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